The start of the first darker season. Also the beginning of the scary time of year.
Not because the dead will rise of out their graves to haunt you. But because old beliefs rise from their hidden rest in your head to affect your reason about yourself and life.
When the weather gets darker, it’s easy to lapse into a darker mindset.
Life feels like it’s closed in, you close the curtains early in the evening, and you are left alone with your thoughts. And they generally won’t be the best ones.
Which is why NOW is the perfect time to take a look at them before the heart of the winter sets in.
So, let’s get to the heart of your reason and create a new one for the coming season.
Losing the sunshine.
This year was hot and sunny and bright.
But now that has begun to fade away to memory, the sunny feeling can fade with it.
Darker days lower the mood. Grey skies, bad weather, shorter days, more gloom than glow takes our mind down. We thrive on the sun so when it’s not around we strongly feel it.
As such medical conditions have developed in response to this.
The obvious we all know about, and plenty of us have experienced, is depression. This is the persistent sadness, lethargy, non enthusiasm for life, and a general lack of energy, desire, and any joy. The mood is a cheerless as the seasonal climate.
In fact in the world today the World Health Organisation estimate some 300 MILLION people are actively living with the affects of depression at any one time.
Added to this has been the even more recent development of SAD or Seasonal Affective Disorder. This is when early Autumn arrives a sufferer also experiences a massive drop in optimism, poor sleep, difficulty in concentrating, and sometimes feeling emotional and sensitive due to the lower light.
For both life is all downcast and miserable.
But, having once being clinically depressed myself, it was my reason in my thinking that was the culprit spoiling how I viewed and registered life.
So Iet’s take on those reasons to help have better seasons ahead.
Doing things for personal reasons.
At some time or other we have all decided to do, or not to do, something for personal reasons.
It doesn’t matter how others think or even if the situation demands we see it differently. If we personally have a good reason, nothing will change our minds.
This is the premise of how we operate mentally as the colder months start to arrive.
We find reasons, mostly not good, helpful, or wise, that we personally believe that affects our mindset. We drag ourselves down in effect. The inclement weather simply adds to and confirms the poor reasons we can’t let go of.
The greatest issue is that our personal reasons are personal themselves.
Autumn and winter can feel rather isolating but not helped by our own reasoning that no-one would want to meet up with us anyway. We can stretch that to being sure that we have never been popular and never will be.
The bills might be higher due to energy costs. Again our reasoning states we can’t afford it as we’re not really worth much as a person so we just have to suffer in the cold.
And feeling low we start comfort eating and then the damage really gets done. How? Looking in the mirror we only see an overweight and horrible person.
These are the reasons that ruin the less warmer seasons.
But, where we do we get them from in the first place?
Our old feeds our cold.
At heart we are warm, happy people.
We weren’t born miserable and bitter. We didn’t lose our love of life as soon as we appeared in this world.
Over time events, people, and even developments in society begin to impact our self esteem. This is how we remain afloat or sink somewhat. A strong self esteem where we can see ourselves as unique, full of individual abilities, and as deserving as anyone of happiness, means we grow up balanced and more content.
Go the other way and operate lower on that self esteem scale, then we have a poor self image, consider ourselves a failure, that others are inherently better, and carry great self blame and shame of who we are.
This means that when the darker seasons fall, it’s easier for us to fall into that self esteem trap as we automatically connect to all the reasons that we self label are wrong with us.
We are wrong, the world outside is wrong, and our life is wrong.
Where the longer Summer days shielded us from much of this, now we have nowhere to go. We don’t like what we see and can’t seem to get away from it. We become the winter blues.
Reasons are no longer opinions. They have become cold, unquestionable fact.
Many of us have been in this position. Usually when the clocks change and the long nights draw in. Left with no outer world to view, the inner world speaks the reasons about our awful life and ourselves to match. And boy does it rarely shut up!
So, it’s time we had a good talk with it.
Thinking what’s reasonable.
We all have the power to be reason-able.
The ability to think and act with reason. That is, to live with a sensible view of what’s real and what’s not. In the world and in our own individual world i.e our life.
You just need to employ that more as the doors close in the wintry seasons coming.
You have to have a reason radar. Here’s how –
Identify the times of day or situations when your normal even thinking drops into anti self esteem mode. Say you always feel low after work on a Friday evening because you have few friends to go out with. Then you tend to order pizza or some takeaway and always feel ugly and gross afterwards. You force fed the negative feeling with a food that brings on a even worse end belief.
So, grab your phone and set an alarm to go off every 10 minutes on Fridays from 6pm reminding you of good things about yourself. Have a list list prepared and combine how that includes other people and activities you may do that prove you are not a lonely, unwanted soul. Ramp yourself up!
This is how to break bad reason and kick in a good one. Repeat with other known trigger moments so you can distract the wrong reasons in your head which will gradually reduce their presence until you have formed another set of supportive ones.
This Autumn/Winter season is the new season for a great reason. You have plenty of time and opportunity to win at this. Which provides another reason – that you are worth a mindset that lifts you to where you deserve to be.
Happy in any weather rather than under the weather.
You don’t need any other reason to just enjoy being who you are!
Modern life with its ever rising living costs, horrendous news almost every day, and heavy work pressures just to name a few, challenge our mentality. With a constant incoming barrage of challenges to our head, it’s hard to stay upbeat in the mind.
This means our mind tends to get caught in a loop of negative expectation.
And that leads to anxiety, depression, fear, pessimism and all other similar types on the spectrum.
Our mind is a protective device that when life is going well, switches off in the background as it sees no suggested threats to us. But, when times are tough it clicks back into alarm mode and never stops operating on that setting.
Which is why we never seem to stop being both on edge and exhausted.
Millions feel this almost every single day. Our minds are becoming fragile and worn out. Can anything help us before we go bonkers? Is there some mental exercise that will help our hassled heads?
The answer is yes, and it’s a mental trick the mind will increasingly believe.
It’s not a magic trick, but it is a psychological one that will turn your mindset more positive.
What you love, the mind will love.
Most of the time we imagine the worst.
It’s not hard to as everywhere we go we are fed images and stories of how bad things are and how worse they can get.
What we don’t realise is that we choose to think these things. Nothing makes us bar our own habit of constantly having thoughts that distress and worry us. We’ve just got too well practised at it.
And this is the key to the trick I’m going to reveal to you.
It’s a simple mental tool that you have just been doing the wrong way round.
Your mind had been fed a picture of despair. It’s been filled with harmful imagery which, in turn, is accompanied by hurtful emotions. They go hand in hand. Or mind in mind.
So, you need to change the film show playing in your mind.
It’s a test for anyone to move from catastrophe imagining to cosmic thinking out of the top drawer. That’s why most people fail at improving their mindset.
But, if you put your mind’s attention more often on what you love, it will love working better.
How do you do that?
You are going to learn the Pleasure Principle!
Happy things means happy heads.
Ok, think of something that makes you happy.
A hobby or activity, a food or a place to visit.
Make it truly personal – how only you love homebaked chocolate cake or jumping in puddles in your wellington boots or enjoying line dancing. You can choose a few, it’s actually better that way. If you love blue stilton cheese, Kate Winslet films, wearing clogs, and riding rollercoasters, that will do just nicely.
Conjour up a few in your mind right now.
Just escape and go off seeing whatever is pure pleasure for you. Everyday things that you always enjoy or would love to enjoy far more given half the chance.
That’s the principle part in the pleasure.
You are introducing your mind to the principle of the pleasures in your life. And they will be! Once you spend a good few minutes imagining them you will begin to forget anything else. As you do those lovely images will trigger some pretty damn good feelings. Ones you tend to experience when participating in your little pleasures.
The big skill to work on is to now hold onto them.
Think more often about things that make you happy and your head will be happy. Add in the tastes and colours and the whole scene as if you were right there this instant, and your head will be even happier still.
You have to get as used to doing this as you are at the negative stuff.
What the mind believes.
There is a certain psychological fact.
That the mind doesn’t know what’s real. What thoughts and images you put in there it will accept as reality today. Convince it that you already are a famous writer and that’s how it will operate. You, now, this second are a writer.
Put every fear in there you can think of and it will be totally convinced everything in the world is out to get you.
It can’t filter out what’s actual and what’s made up if you think it enough.
Here’s where the pleasure principle kicks in.
Catch yourself drifting into poor thinking/seeing and go straight to your pleasures. Worried your factory might close, instead see yourself baking bread and sharing it with friends (plus smelling it fresh from the oven). Divert it, point it in that direction, guide it, and lead it to better places you adore.
Soon it will naturally switch to your happy fun stuff rather than the old horror show.
It can’t tell what IS real, it follows you. So…give it pleasures to feast on. Then repeat, repeat, repeat so the mind decides that is where you are in your life right now. It will flood your senses with everything x (rambling) or y (speaking Italian) etc etc that are your personal joys.
There you go. A simple trick of the mind that persuades the mind,
Try it right now, try it all the time. It’s my pleasure to introduce you to it.
Now, introduce your mindset to your best happy pleasures and enjoy being there every single day.
That’s because it effectively determines our life.
What we think, believe, and view life as will be how we connect to it and experience it. A poor mindset leads to seeing life the wrong way, being unhappy, and feeling unfulfilled. A brighter one leads to taking positive action, enjoying all life has to offer, and boosts health and well being.
So, mindset is all.
In this post I’m going to give you three strong reasons why your mindset might need to change. Change so that you can develop the best mindset for the best possible way to live.
Let’s dive in with reason No.1.
1. Your mindset is outdated.
Most of our body is designed to last a lifetime.
The mindset isn’t part of that. Surprised? Don’t be. Many minds are out of date. The expectation and outlook contained within them have been the same for many, many years.
Now while it may seem that that’s consistency, it’s actually a lack of progress mentally. It’s akin to being stuck in a pattern and remaining there. After all, you would never think like you did as a teenager as you do now in your late 40’s.
Somewhere between 16 and now you never amended your mindset to move with the times, your changed standards and values, and the different choices and priorities you have.
Have you asked yourself where your mindset is stuck?
I did a few years back and was shocked to honestly realise I was thinking as if it was still 1995. No wonder my life had never caught up.
Not now and yours might need the same updating too!
2. Your mindset has been over influenced.
We all like to believe that we own what we think.
No-one is holding us captive and trying to take over our mind. Which means we are free to think what we want…and we do.
That’s a beautiful theory.
In reality everyone’s mindset has been influenced.
And in this permanently open social media and 24 hour rolling news era, influence is ever present in our lives. Due to the sheer nature of a) the length of time we spend on social media/watching news and b) the easy availability of them, our minds are being convinced on a daily basis.
That’s not difficult to instigate at all. The social media groups you follow or your preference of news channels lead you to hearing and seeing a certain angle and agenda on life. Repeat being there day after day and soon their influence becomes your mindset.
It’s the 21st Century achilles heel.
We believe we are informing ourselves when actually we are being informed by someone.
That’s called influence.
3. It wasn’t yours in the first place.
Everyone starts with an inherited mindset.
Everyone. Even the very best among us.
No-one is born ready made with a mindset to go.
We accumulate one from our early years upwards. We learn and are told by parents, family, teachers, people in authority etc what to believe, what is right and wrong, and how to view life.
It’s not until our mid teens that we start to reject some of that ‘wisdom’ and begin adding some of our own.
But, we often still hold much of our initial mental training in our memory banks that still directs us in life. It’s only if (or when) we question that mindset because it’s not feeling right with the person we are, do we override it and replace it with our own.
Most people never get anywhere near that far. They keep being led by an inner thought process from childhood and early years even when it clearly isn’t valid in their older world many years later.
If you seek change in your life, that’s the place to start. What you were once told.
It’s time to change your mind.
So that’s where you may be.
At a point in life when you need to change your mind so life can begin to change behind it.
Change it because your life hasn’t been working or not reaching the promise it once had with the mindset that’s led you to here.
Take a look at the three above and be honest if some or all of them are you. And your mind. But, there’s good news. It’s your mind and you can change it.
Because a bad life often becomes a much better one when our mindset changes which changes everything for us.
Photo attributions – free to use under Pixabay Content License by elsimage and geralt.
One of the greatest evolutions of mankind is the human mind.
Where once we were mere cavemen capable of basic thought. Now we are walking mega computers who can send fellow humans to the moon and create phenomenal technology.
The development of the human mind is THE greatest story of humankind’s history on planet Earth.
It’s taken us from beings that could only hunt for basic survival, to ones that can imagine and create every futuristic device and machine.
We appear to be in constant growth and expansion.
Until recently. Until this Century began and led us to now.
Because the new development of the human mind threatens to take us back many years if it’s not halted.
A development ordinary, everyday, average people now increasingly fall into.
First we survived.
The human mind began as our security system.
Imagine you are living in the dinosaur age. Little old you and a few other members of your tribe. In those days humans numbered a few thousand dotted around the globe. Hardly a fighting force. More a small band of hunters.
Knowledge of the world and the various creatures roaming the planet was scant and localised.
You just didn’t know what was around the next rock formation.
So, early mindsets were focused on one thing….survival.
Finding enough food and resources to remain alive while staying alert for any beast on the ground or the air that could gobble you up in an instant.
Basic human mental activiity.
No important marketing sales reports due in the morning, bailiffs knocking at your door, or superbug breakouts to consider. It was you v dinosaur type terrors that occupied your head. There was simply little else to consume your thinking space.
But then we humans evolved.
Culture comes along.
The term that defines the development of the mind to today is culture.
Over the centuries we advanced as a race of people. How did we do this? We became civilised. We gathered in communities, grew our own vegetables and reared animals for food rather than chase after them. Trade between other tribes and nations spawned as we explored the world.
Added to this we formed laws and rules to live by with standards and values and ruling leaders to oversee our ongoing progress and to protect us.
As the requirement of overall threat faded (other than periodical intruders after our lands), our minds turned to understanding, learning, inventing, and improving our circumstances. With that we also sought entertainment and pleasure to fill the time we were previously on watch for huge wild predators.
The mentality switched to advancement in all areas of life.
Industry came out of this and mass manufacture creating employment that supplied income. We had funds to spend. New products and services sprung up as a result and our minds developed again in new ways.
Now we focused on purchasing the best, the finest, and the special. Our minds turned inwards and onto our self image and who we were and how we looked in society.
And so it remained fairly under control.
Until technology introduced something phenomenal as this Century opened.
Becoming unsocial.
We used to be social with each other.
Real social. Social in person at actual events and places. That’s why it was called a social life.
But, just as the last century ended, a new social arrived. An internet one. Social media. And the mental developments we once progressed from took a new, less appealing twist.
Social media started off all funky and exciting. Linking to other ordinary people around the world to see and hear about their daily lives. Kuala Lumpur could learn about Kansas, Brisbane about Brussels, and so on. We could experience their world from the confines of our armchair.
Wow, this is going to be incredible.
Or so everyone thought. Or first thought. As the years wore on people deviated into groups of others who liked and believed what they did. They spent all their time there rather than on the open platform.
They became influenced then convinced that the beliefs or views that took them there were the correct ones.
Empowered by the group mind think their mindset got entrenched. Anyone who didn’t agree with their way of seeing things was wrong. Plain wrong and they needed to be told that in the most uncertain terms. Terms that became more aggressive, personal, and even threatening.
Worse was still to come. This new mind development also forged a sense of arrogance and power inside their head. Again buoyed on by the group chatter they felt superior to others and told them so when reading/hearing/viewing something they didn’t like. So superior that they took that with them into their normal lives and acted the same as online.
They were right, great, perfect, better than others, and looked down on people in inflated behaviours.
The new human mind development had become far from social.
Welcome to the mad mind.
And so here we are today!
The once used mind for survival and creation is now used for off the scale abuse and criticism.
Minds today are social media driven. Until it appeared the average person kept their opinions to themselves except when they were with best mates at the pub or with friends over dinner. General opinion chiefly on current affairs, their sports team’s performance, and ‘her’ next door.
Our minds simply didn’t think they were correct about every thing in the world, major or minor.
Now even a few words by someone on a social media post gets us mad. We’ve have gone from ancient warriors to keyboard warriors. And yet somehow we consider we are more civilised today.
The new mind development is this toxic mindset that drives awful behaviour.
And because social media seems here to stay without any real enforcement, this mentality is doomed to remain with it.
The irony is that many people now sound like the bellowing dinosaurs we once had to run away from. But if you are enjoying a few innocent moments on social media, you won’t see them coming any more, and you can’t run away unless you log out and never come back.
Social media was promised as a revolution of connection.
Today it’s turned out to be an abomination of the human mind.
We all like to believe we think for ourselves and just ourselves.
After all it’s our mind and our thoughts and we choose to think and act for ourselves, right?
We would definitely know if anyone was trying to take over our head…..wouldn’t we?
Well….NO.
That’s because ‘they’ are already doing it.
Where we consider as an everyday person mind control can’t happen to us, it is, in fact, in operation every single day. Its just takes the form of subtly imprinted conditioning that we barely notice and continue to repeat.
We are the most brainwashed mind era ever.
The birth of rolling misinformation.
Let’s go back to the end of last Century.
Sounds ancient when it’s only 26 years ago. Hardly very historical.
In those pre-internet days information was limited generally to newspapers, news bulletins, and books. The news media then only reported actual events. What has happened as opposed to what could happen next. Speculation and guessed prediction was rare.
But then all hell broke loose.
Welcome the world wide web connecting people from one corner of the planet to another. But many of those people didn’t just want to find out about each other. They only sought to push their personal belief messages on the populus.
News of what actually took place soon began to give way to theory and conjecture and presented suggestion of events.
People of the same ilk banded together into groups that social media promoted to us to form and began their indoctrination machine roll out. And with it the internet gave birth to agendas.
Truth was out. Conspiracy, skewed observations, and fake ‘facts’ got peddled to drive personal warped takes on the world. Misinformation had started its rise to power.
And we were caught up in this. Why?
Because the regular media soon joined in!
Twenty four hour influence.
In the past we had to wait for our information.
The newspapers had to hit the shelves or when the news was on the TV schedule. Social media gave us access to 24 hour info. The type we wanted on tap. The gen from the groups and people who thought and saw life as we did.
Now we didn’t need to wait, we accessed it ‘as and when’. This gave us a steady stream of views from other people everywhere. Views, opinions, inside scoops, secrets etc all flooding our senses and getting into our head because now there was no other ‘always open’ sources available all the time.
Then the mainstream channels decided to get a piece of the action.
They wanted a slice of this new voice community that was online all the time. Welcome 24 hour news. Hard hitting, to the minute, latest and greatest headlines from all around the world. All day every day.
The brainwashing industry ramped up it’s activity.
The news media used their professional integrity and in power contacts together with the highest level of broadcast journalists to take on the amateur Facebook or Twitter brigade.
They presented slick shows with on the spot interviews with those at the heart of the current affairs. They went for the big game and threw those names back at us in sound byte after sound byte.
And we lapped it up in our droves.
After all, these are the trusted national and international news suppliers that have been operating for many decades.
They will tell us the truth as it is.
Except….they didn’t either.
Not enough news to go round.
Now the brainwashing reached sky high output.
The principal of constant news sounded sexy and successful. If it happens, in an instant it can be reported and shared. And the TV media battled to be the first to do this.
But there’s a problem. News, real important major news, just isn’t an everyday occurrence. Breaking news bombs such as natural disasters, international conflicts, or political fall outs are now and again stories.
Most days are mundane and you have a non-stop midnight to midnight requirement to air something newsworthy. What can you do?
Simple. You ask your reporters and experts to use their experience to forecast, second guess, and suggest what events mean and what they will lead to.
Classed as inside information it was merely one thing – opinion.
And opinion based on the editorial slant that news channel was aligned to. It represented less about truth, and more about the picture they wanted to paint. Not really gossip, far worse than that.
In short….propaganda.
And with it being on our screens on a permanent basis, it started to brainwash the viewers who also sat on the same side of the face or who tuned in because they liked how the show was produced.
Minds were ripe for hypnotising…and that’s where we come in!
The never ending story.
Our mindsets are easily influenced.
The more time you spend with certain people or environments (and less time elsewhere), the more you align with the thinking and behaving they have. Have you ever been told others are a bad influence on you?
It’s plain human nature. Be surrounded by something and it leeks into our own consciousness. It’s natural because it’s an inherited survival mechanism that we genetically hold from our ancient tribal days.
And it begins in our minds.
These minds get told things enough and they feel it’s real. Even if what we are told is a story which doesn’t match the truth.
Today the people we spend time with are news people and our environment is online. Here there is a never ending story of whatever interests and is curious to us. These stories captivate and pull us even further and we barely notice. With a constant supply in this location (TV, mobile phone, social media platforms) we never notice that the subtle art of brainwashing is taking place.
Within a few months you now believe the world is flat, we never landed on the moon, and that a special Illuminati rule the world.
We have so much coming at us now from all directions, it’s no longer difficult to fall under the spell.
One you are probably under somewhere now too!
Time to wash your own mind of control.
It’s time to wash your mind clean from where you spend too much time.
Regular habits can lead to limited mentality. Not to mention overinfluence.
If you dedicate much of your time to specific news programmes and social media groups you are narrowing your awareness. You are consuming a diet of only their outlook and direction on aspects of life. It’s like only eating one or two foods for every meal because someone you listen to told you it was best.
Brainwashing in this way is obvious.
The way you experience it may well not be. Unless you get perspective you will never know the damage of the drip drip into your head.
With a society over filled with news, opinion, advice, so called inside info, so called truth, and every angle possible, if you don’t keep your brain independent it will be flooded and washed away.
Cut back where you take it and what you expose it too.
Brainwashing isn’t just for cults.
Brainwashing minds is a skill of the media as well. Protect yours!
Fire up your mind to believe that you can achieve and that mentality will drive you to a successful life. Back it up with a strong and clear vision and you are on your way to big things
It’s the in-trend mental approach that is promoted and repeated everywhere especially social media.
It sounds so straightforward and has hooked millions into buying into the concept.
But that’s the problem right there. The modern fallacy that the fabulous flows from a mega mind base and is guaranteed to work wonders. This has been driven by the young cyber generation and their overnight belief that everything comes quick (like their Amazon order or Just Eat delivery).
I call this Internet Attitude.
See it, want it, order it, and it will appear like magic in a blink of any eye.
True success though isn’t born from purely scaling up your mind view and seeing lovely pictures in there. So people who buy into this fad are more likely to be ruining any chance of an elevated future by employing it.
And in the following five reasons I’ll reveal why.
1. You are following the crowd.
It seems crazy to say it but you don’t want success.
Well, you kind of do. Sure you want to experience a more expansive life BUT not some mega success version sold to you by others.
It’s a mass mentality term that attracts, well, masses of people. Just like the Law of Attraction did before that for those with extra spiritual beliefs. And very few of those ever attracted anything at all.
Don’t get caught up in hype.
An individual mindset remains independent from larger influence. It doesn’t just accept the broad message and promotion that too many people do. It operates singularly and so can’t be drawn into any mental scheme, marketing ploy, or even social media fakery.
Be true to your own mind, it knows what’s best for you and not any artificial success created mental manual.
Follow that if that’s your hearts desire and some form of success is going to show up in your life.
Cut out the crowd view, follow your own mental independence.
2. You lose yourself.
How can developing a Success Mindset ever be a bad thing?
Surely it can only improve the circumstances in your life? And give you a more robust mind in getting there?
You are not wrong there. I agree with you.
But, what comes with one thing brings another. Give up drinking for your health and lose a huge chunk of your social life and friends. Start going to the gym before work means being in bed much earlier to get enough sleep.
Like night follows day, nothing awesome comes without pitfalls.
The ones here are losing yourself to the headline goal of being a success. Your whole mental focus becomes this super end result point and life around you begins to blur.
Soon, and you never can put your finger on when, you lose yourself to this big escapade. It takes over and dwarfs anything else in your life relationships, relaxed down time, and simple pleasures.
Many a dream is won but the person you used to be has gone and soon it all can feel very hollow.
The Success Mindset has won and you have lost…..you.
3. You miss the real signs.
So, you’ve got this brand new mega mindset.
You are empowering yourself every day with upbeat thoughts and beliefs. A big vision for your future is right in there in the middle of it.
You can almost see it and touch it and each day you feel you are a step closer to that day when it all comes real. You have begun the journey to success.
And now the blinkers are on and all you can see is the shiny end life.
But that life may not be right for you.
You may have another greater destiny in you to fulfill that will truly make your life.
One that gives you everything inside and out. The clues to that are always there. They are often signposted in some way that those who take their time day by day spot and follow.
Not so the success sprinter looking fast forwards to the finish line and speeding past the true roads to self contentment.
A Success Mindset starts you on a journey. Remain open minded and ask yourself as you step on that road if there is another way to go somewhere special. Those answers, the situations that turn up, and the sense inside that tells you where your real direction lies if you don’t just aim and shoot for the moon are the signs you would be wise to read. They will take you where you need to go.
Have a mindset that looks for signs rather than success.
4. Simple is often where to find success.
As soon as you talk Success Mindset you think big things.
Success that isn’t a personal achievement but one that is lucrative, fame creating, and with a global reach. Or similar.
It has to be notable. It has to be formative. And your name has to be all over it.
It’s a top down dream. World level, first class is the starting point. But why?
Why can’t something simple be a big success too that doesn’t demand a mega mindset?
Simple will never, ever go out of fashion. To this day, even in these super cyber futuristic times, we still love and seek out simple things that make our lives better, freer, time saving, relaxed etc.
Or help create something different or to stand out like colourful doggy glasses!
Simple is the powerful solution because it usually comes with heaps of customers and remains in use for some time.
Simple lasts and is the real success.
5. It’s a Self Mindset that you need.
It’s true that to elevate your life requires a mindset change.
A thought process that fuels stronger beliefs and actions that lead to improved life change.
The current trend on reading the last sentence is to state…that’s a Success Mindset!! An automatic link between the two has been formed in many minds on this.
To me, that’s not accurate. Or even wise.
A Success Mindset may not suit you. It may not even be you. You might not be empowered through that. So, what would get you self improving across the board?
Follow the Self Mindset.
This a mindset that revolves around knowing and celebrating who you are. It takes the necessary time to find out about yourself and honour all they want to experience, follow, and feel free being part of.
As that person explodes in you success is a natural step away. It will simply come out of you as another form of you and represent who you are in some or many ways in what you create, share, offer, or become.
Choose you, think what you means and live in that skin and keep that mindset every day.
Accept yourself and live yourself and the Self Mindset will draw a success into your orbit that perfectly matches that one off soul.
Success is being yourself and letting your mind love it.
The Famous Five.
There you go. Forget being famous.
Follow these famous five instead. Your best reasons not to embed a Success Mindset that isn’t your get quick happy life mental program.
Success isn’t for everyone especially in the mind. It’s not a perfect use of our heads even if it sounds sexy and superb.
There are better places to go mentally that are far more useful for you anyway.
Because success mindsets may often mean no success at all.
